Formation
has often been compared to a journey, the only distinction being that it is a
life-long one. There is no doubt that this is an apt image to describe the
process of formation. In this section, I would like to frame my reflections using
this image. In order to derive maximum meaning from this approach it is
important that we first try and break open the meaning of such an understanding
of formation through the use of our imagination.
Formation, like
all journeys has a beginning and an end – and all that lies in between. From a
chronological standpoint, journeys commence at the beginning. Realistically, they
can also be seen as beginning at the end. The choices we make in regard to our lifelong
destination are primarily influenced by the reason we want to make the journey.
If we are thinking of taking a vacation, our choice of destination is most
usually swayed by our own passions and interests. If we are planning a business
trip, our destination is where we can carry out the business we intend.
Then
there is another kind of journey – different from the previous two – a journey home;
a journey to meet with people whom we love and who love us; people with whom we
have a caring relationship. These journeys are unique, because in a way they
can be described as circular journeys. We leave home in our desires and in our
imagination only to return to our reality and then to leave and live out our hopes!
Having an intention
for a planned destination is the first and most important step on a journey.
Next comes the preparation for the new beginning: “How am I going to get where
I want to go?” Our budget, the means and resources we have to get there, the
time we have available, our companions on the journey, our previous experiences
and the accessibility and the reality of reaching our goal are some factors
that influence the initial stage of our journey.
Then there is the
journey itself that can be influenced by numerous factors. Are we traveling
light or with baggage that hinders our journey? How motivated are we to reach
our destination and to face the challenges that our journey brings? Are we open
to our fellow travelers by allowing them to enter into our lives and how do we
support them in their journey? Are we aware that our journey may have multiple
legs and that the end of one leg, however long and tiring is not necessarily
the end of our journey? Are we amenable to checking if we are on the right
path? If not, are we open to seeking guidance from others or consult guides or
maps if we are lost
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